Grandmother of the Bride & Groom Outfit Ideas

Finding the perfect wedding-day outfit as a grandmother can be surprisingly tricky.

Many style guides tend to focus exclusively on mothers, overlooking the equally important (and stylish!) grandmothers attending the celebration.

Whether you’re the proud grandma of the bride or groom, you deserve an outfit that feels special, comfortable, and completely you.

In this dedicated guide, you’ll find practical styling advice, shopping recommendations, and outfit inspiration tailored specifically to grandmothers.

Ensuring you feel confident, elegant, and ready to enjoy every moment of the big day.

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wHERE TO SHOP FOR grandmother of the bride & groom

I always say the best place to start is where you already enjoy shopping. Consider if your favorite shops have occasion wear ranges suitable for weddings. Perhaps there are specific designers or brands you’ve loved wearing over the years—start there first! You certainly don’t need to limit yourself to typical wedding boutiques.

While I can’t list every local shop here, I’m sharing great online options that are stylish and grandmother-friendly. However, don’t underestimate the value of visiting local boutiques where you can receive a more personalized shopping experience.

Local bridal and mother-of-the-bride shops can also be wonderful places to find classic, elegant outfits if you’re aiming for a traditional look.

1. Phase 8 – Great Traditional grandmother of the bride

These are UK based again but they offer great shipping to the US, 2 days so it is another great option to include.

I wanted to include these as I think if you are a grandmother and looking for something more traditional they are a great option.

I should say they are great for any age, just from chatting to mums I find grandmothers do tend to want something more traditional that looks stylish. These do this well!

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2. David’s Bridal – Affordable and Elegant Wedding Attire

I often recommend David’s Bridal when it comes to wedding shopping, especially for grandmothers of the bride and groom.

David’s Bridal has everything you might need for a wedding day outfit, and the best part is their selection is not only elegant but also budget-friendly. You can find a wide range of styles, colors, and sizes, ensuring you’ll discover something that suits you perfectly for the big day.

What I love about David’s Bridal is their focus on fit and accessibility. Many of their options are designed to flatter and offer comfort, helping you feel confident without needing extensive tailoring. For anyone looking to feel their best without a hefty price tag, David’s Bridal provides the ideal mix of style, fit, and affordability.

3. Adrianna Papell – Elegant, Timeless, and Perfectly Crafted Attire

When it comes to sophisticated and stylish wedding fashion, Adrianna Papell is a go-to brand that I frequently recommend.

Adrianna Papell has an incredible selection of outfits for grandmothers of the bride and groom that are crafted with elegance and attention to detail. Their designs often include luxurious fabrics, intricate beading, and flattering silhouettes that bring a sense of timeless grace to any wedding occasion.

For grandmothers wanting to look and feel their best, Adrianna Papell offers ready-to-wear options that have a custom feel due to the thoughtful designs and flattering cuts. These outfits are a stunning choice for creating a polished and confident look, perfect for a memorable day.

4. Etsy – For handmade, unique and stylish clothes

I am always shouting about Etsy for wedding shopping.

Literally, you can get all you need on Etsy and you are usually supporting a small business or designer.

When it comes to wedding fashion I love that if you find the right shop on Etsy you can get a bespoke outfit that is tailored made for you.

For a lot less than usual also. I recommend in our slimming mother of the bride blog that having your outfit tailored to fit perfectly helps you feel confident.

A lot of designers on Etsy offer made to measure outfits so this is not needed.

light pink mother of the bride dress, knee length

grey and white dress and jacket mother of the bride set

5. ASOS – Budget minded grandmother of the bride clothing

I think people sometimes think ASOS is more for young and trendy clothes.

Yes, they are very on trend with some clothing but as we have already mentioned, you can wear trendy clothes at any age!

Grandmother of the bride shopping isn’t limited to any shop.

I think the quality can differ a lot depending on the brand and I find I have to order a few sizes as they all seem to change with the brand also.

I love Hope & Ivy if you are looking for something super pretty. & Other Stories have some good choices and Asos’s own range is always getting better.

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6. Coast – Great price point and some modern options for UK mothers

This one is for our UK or EU mother only sorry but we can’t leave them off as they have some stunning modern options.

I especially love the Lisa Tan collaboration!

They have a good mix of more traditional styles and modern options. I like most that they have a lot mix and match style sets.

Skirts, trousers and different tops and overlays you can mix up to create your own unique outfit.

They also have a lot of matching accessories so you can get your full mother of the bride look in one place.

7. Mac Duggal – Glamorous & Elegant Mother of the Bride Dresses at Nordstrom

For mothers of the bride and groom who want a dress that feels sophisticated yet show-stopping, Mac Duggal is a brand worth exploring.

Available at Nordstrom, their collection blends timeless elegance with modern, head-turning details, making every dress feel like a statement piece.

What I love about Mac Duggal is their ability to create flattering silhouettes with luxurious fabrics and thoughtful embellishments. Whether it’s a chic cape dress, a sleek beaded gown, or a flowing A-line with intricate details, their designs exude grace and confidence while remaining incredibly wearable.

With their commitment to quality craftsmanship and refined glamour, Mac Duggal at Nordstrom is an excellent choice for mothers looking for an outfit that’s both elegant and unforgettable on such a special day.

8. Bergdorf Goodman – US based luxury Clothing

Another US only one again but I had to share as they have some stunning choices. I am especially loving Rickie Freeman’s collection for Teri Jon.

They are a great choice to find something extra special.

The range of designers are all high quality and there are so many amazing pieces to choose from.

If you do want to splurge but a full outfit is too much consider getting your hat, shoes or accessories from a designer you love.

Grandmother of the Bride or Groom: Shopping & Styling Tips

As a grandmother of the bride or groom, you hold a special place of honor and deserve an outfit that makes you feel both stylish and comfortable.

Here’s your practical and thoughtful guide to shopping and styling your look for this memorable occasion:

1. Prioritize Comfort with Elegance

Choose fabrics and styles that provide ease of movement and breathability, so you can comfortably enjoy the day’s festivities. Lightweight layers, soft fabrics, and gentle waistlines or fits are ideal.

2. Classic Styles Always Work

Opt for timeless and elegant designs that feel refined yet understated. Consider dresses, skirt suits, or chic trouser suits with flattering silhouettes, ensuring you feel sophisticated and age-appropriate.

3. Coordinating Colors and Styles

Your outfit should harmonize with the wedding colors and themes without necessarily matching them exactly. Subtle, complementary colors ensure you fit seamlessly into the overall wedding aesthetic.

4. Shop Where You Feel Comfortable

Start shopping at your favorite clothing stores or with designers you already love. Many brands offer special occasion collections that can work beautifully for grandmothers.

5. Thoughtful Accessories

Accessorize your outfit with personal touches, like a cherished brooch, a tasteful necklace, or delicate earrings. Comfortable yet stylish shoes and a matching handbag or clutch complete your look.

6. Dress Length and Practicality

Consider tea-length or midi-length dresses or skirts. These lengths are both elegant and practical, allowing easy movement and comfort throughout the day.

7. Layer for Versatility

Weddings can involve temperature changes from ceremony to reception. Bring a stylish wrap, shawl, or jacket that complements your outfit and offers versatility for changing conditions.

8. Supportive Shopping Companions

When shopping, bring someone supportive—a close family member or friend—to offer feedback, encouragement, and help you feel confident in your choices.

9. Allow Time for Tailoring

Plan ahead to accommodate any necessary alterations, ensuring your outfit fits perfectly. A well-tailored garment boosts both your comfort and confidence on the big day.

By following these styling and shopping tips, you’ll effortlessly achieve a look that highlights your special role as a beloved grandmother, making the celebration even more memorable.

Check out some stunning real grandmothers showing how to rock a unique look! Head to our unique mother of the bride blog for some non-traditional outfit ideas!